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Yes, it can get spicy at Not I But We; survivors of trafficking have a long list of survival tactics from fighting, to stealing, to addiction that don’t just go away because they’ve been rescued. To be staff here, you must be convinced that people are not their behavior.In addition, we're convinced we must all rewire our nervous systems with love for the sake of ourselves, those in our lives, and for the good of the world we all share. It may be a lofty dream for the world, but it’s a very attainable one for you and I.
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Each year the US Department of State releases the TIP Report detailing how countries are dealing with the issues of trafficking. Let's dive into the findings for South Africa. 
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Where does your mind go when you are not fully present? Well, that’s the point of mindfulness: It wakes us up to the fact that we live in a constant stream of thoughts which shapes our mood.  Mindfulness isn’t about stopping your thoughts; it’s about cultivating a wise relationship with them. This begins with training your awareness to notice when it’s not in the present and returning to where your life is actually happening: this moment.
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We know how powerful returning to the basics of wellbeing can be: breath and nature. The breathe bracelet is designed to remind you that the most basic building block of inner peace is always within your reach: your breath.
A reminder to be grateful
At Not I But We, we acknowledge that life is hard and unfair, and for some (like the woman who made your bracelet) it is so much harder than most. But, we also stubbornly point out that life is ridiculously beautiful at the same time. The practice of gratefulness is a powerful tool for training our awareness to acknowledge that even in the midst of pain there is still something to be grateful for.
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At Not I But We, we teach that we all must rewire our nervous systems toward Love, and not just the survivors of human trafficking. The calm bracelets are a practical tool remind us to do mindful practices such as a sensory inventory.
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With every purchase, customers are empowering woman and providing survivors of human trafficking with dignifying work. And the best, it only takes a few extra minutes to make sure artisans and employees are being treated with dignity, and paid an ethical, livable wage.
How does trafficking really happen?
We have all seen sensational photos of girls in chains, or seen movies like Taken, but how do people really get trafficked? Hint hint: abduction is often not the answer.
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