It Takes A Sisterhood
Madison BarefieldJul 23, 20250 comments
The Sisterhood Dress is more than a garment, it's a celebration of connection. In a candid conversation with the designer, she shares how every stitch tells a story of unity, making it not just something you wear, but something you feel.
Rise Bracelet
Tonya StanfieldMay 29, 20250 comments
Learn how to RISE from nervous system Shutdown, the hardest state from which to restore joy and calm. Be inspired by our artisan's journey, who most likely made your bracelet.
Journey Bracelet Blog
Tonya StanfieldMay 29, 20250 comments
The entire Universe is offering its hand for you to hold whenever you need it. Learn about how nature co-regulates your nervous system and be inspired by one of our survivor/artisan's story. 
Not I But We's office door with the logo
Tonya StanfieldNov 05, 20240 comments
We figured the best way to create a trauma-informed workplace and to help our survivor artisans was for the staff to do the learning and commit to daily practices of nervous system regulation and emotional intelligence. Learn the basics of regulating your nervous system and see what we teach, on the spot, every day at Not I But We.
four people wearing Not I But We's mindfulness bracelets and holding each others arms
Damian JutziJul 30, 20240 comments
Each year the US Department of State releases the TIP Report detailing how countries are dealing with the issues of trafficking. Let's dive into the findings for South Africa. 
two people sitting at a table using colourful beads
Tonya StanfieldMay 25, 20240 comments
Where does your mind go when you are not fully present? Well, that’s the point of mindfulness: It wakes us up to the fact that we live in a constant stream of thoughts which shapes our mood.  Mindfulness isn’t about stopping your thoughts; it’s about cultivating a wise relationship with them. This begins with training your awareness to notice when it’s not in the present and returning to where your life is actually happening: this moment.
reminder to breathe
Tonya StanfieldMay 25, 20242 comments
We know how powerful returning to the basics of wellbeing can be: breath and nature. The breathe bracelet is designed to remind you that the most basic building block of inner peace is always within your reach: your breath.
a calming picture with someone's hand dipping in the water
Tonya StanfieldMay 21, 20240 comments
At Not I But We, we teach that we all must rewire our nervous systems toward Love, and not just the survivors of human trafficking. The calm bracelets are a practical tool remind us to do mindful practices such as a sensory inventory.